The Power of “Yes”

Ever notice a new pattern in your life, and wonder when and how things shifted?

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I recently noted that interesting things were happening to me, with some regularity. For example, I was asked to be an extra in a TV commercial. (Yes – random, unexpected, fun.) The morning of the shoot (look at me already using the lingo), I had a fleeting thought that I might meet another kidlit author that day. And I did. The actor in front of me in the “bank line” that I stood in for several hours told me all about his middle grade novel and his popular anti-bullying school visits.

Then, as I was reflecting on how fun it was to see the behind-the-scenes making of a commercial, I was asked to do an (unrelated) televised interview highlighting a local service I’d used and been happy with. Yes, I’m ready for my close up, I thought.

Before that, as I was sending my littlest off to school and contemplating next steps, I was asked to teach a few courses at the local university (UCONN). It was the clear-out-the-cobwebs/rejoin-the-adult-world kick in the pants I had needed.

I’ve also been asked to test and rate products, and have gotten paid to 1) eat crackers, 2) give my opinion on Lego toys, and 3) choose a decking material.

Oh, and I win things all the time. Annoying, I know. It’s always little things like books and baked goods. But still.

Things just keep…coming at me. Is this some kind of cosmic force I’m pulling to myself a la “The Secret”? (I never did read that book, but I know it talks about the ‘law of attraction.’)

No. I don’t think that’s it. It’s much more basic than that.

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I think it’s this: I simply started saying “YES.”

Yes, I will try this new random thing that scares me. Yes, I’d like to go somewhere new, and meet interesting people. Yes, I’d love to get out of my comfort zone for a bit…um, I think….yup, okay, I’ll do it. Yes, I’ll enter that contest. By saying yes, maybe I am sending the universe the message that I’m open to new ideas. I just hope it keeps answering. Because I’m having a LOT of fun.

What else, though, can we challenge ourselves to say yes to? It could be something small but significant, like: Yes, I will listen with an open mind to the varied opinions around my Thanksgiving table.

Last weekend I had to start with Yes, I will watch the news reports that are hard to digest, so I can know who needs our help the most. And how about yes, I am willing to learn about other religions and cultures, and open my heart and mind to their struggles? As I write this, people in Connecticut are arguing about our Governor’s decision to continue to welcome refugees from Syria. Really? If the tables were turned, and your family was casting about for a country to safely call home, wouldn’t you want to be given the benefit of a yes, you are welcome here? Honestly, if you are sitting on something comfortable as you read these words, you have so much more than millions of other humans on Earth. How simple your yes/no decisions would seem to them.

So many “No’s” come from fear, ignorance, and harmful generalizations: I’ll never succeed, why try? All Muslims are violent. People who don’t look like me don’t have the same emotions I do. One person can’t make a difference.

Let go the NO. What will you say YES to today? Tomorrow? Next month? Next year? I’d love to hear where your positive attitude takes you.

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If you’re interested, here is my small screen debut. I’m available for autographs, or to stand in line for you at the bank.

 

 

14 thoughts on “The Power of “Yes”

  1. And there, you have the beginning of another litany for Spark! You are amazing. I’m glad we said yes to having three kids!

  2. Yes, you can! Your power of “Yes!” helped to launch my career into writing for children, and I will forever be grateful. As for the ad, it makes me so happy to see your smile hidden in the background. It just seems to make everything a bit brighter and happier. But, please tell me you got to keep the hat and got it signed by Tim Wakefield. Keep saying, “Yes!” 🙂 Jen

    • I got a signed baseball. One of these days I’m sure it’ll make it into some kind of giveaway/prize pack for baseball lovers. With appropriately themed books, of course. (One of yours??)

  3. Love this Nancy! Very inspiring…a good kick in the butt to remind us to get out of our own little world. Now, when can I drop off the checks I need deposited at the bank, and I have a big bag of loose change to deposit too. I know you’ll say YES!

  4. What a great post and important reminder to open our eyes and hearts to new adventures, as well as to those fellow human beings who might appear different from us at first glance. Great job in the bank line!

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